havent updated in a while....

good evening everyone.

well its friday!!!! yah!!!!!! time to roll out the weekend. robbie and i are heading to middleburg tomorrow for a few hours to take something to his mom then going to an evening wine festival. still up in the air of who is going. but its all good. then sunday we plan to lay by the pool. hopefully it will be warm enough.

well on to the house thing. we lost both houses. one we were the 2nd offer to be considerd. however the one that we really wanted we didnt even get a chance. our realtor submitted our offer then never heard again from the selling agent. after three weeks, our realtor finally looked on a website that they can only access and saw that it was sold. our realtor called and emailed almost every day to see where our offer was and never heard from the selling realtor. wtf! so we are now back to looking again. its getting to be crunch time bc rates are starting to go up and also prices. its getting alittle nerve racking. we were hoping to know something by atlanta on july 17th or at the latest august before we leave for the keys. so keep us in your prayers that we find something.

work is the same. they did change my hours to 8:30-5:30. which doesnt make a difference in the traffic. i do get some time in the evening when i get home, and dont feel as through ive lost the whole day. i do have my head hunter in va still looking for me. i went on one interview last week and we were sure i was going to get the job, but then a girl who had tempted there before literally came in at the last minute and stole the job from me. whatever. it is what it is. and i guess i should be thanking my lucky stars that at least i have a job.

so heres the real news. as many of you all know that a few weeks ago the infumise john and stef crossed the final line with me. after the whole thing that they stood me and robbie up after waiting for them for 4hrs to have dinner with them. so lastnight i told robbie that i think he should call john. i know robbie missed his friend and was upset about it. and that if john didnt answer his phone or call back that we would put it in the past. so robbie left a voicemail and we went out side on our balcony and had some wine. well there was a knock at the door about 30mins later and john was there. so being polite i invited him in and even offered him a glass of my wine. after talking for a few robbie had to use the bath room which left me and john by our selves. he then tells me that his gf brenda and stef want to speak to me about the voicemail that i had left thah night on johns phone. it was basicaly that i told him what he did was rude and ive kept my mouth shut long enough. if you know me i can sound very harsh and can get down right nasty when im pissed off beyond words. when john said that i said oh really how about an apology for calling me a whore at out back. he laughs. wtf! he said that no body said that and i must have misheard something. lucky at that time robbie came back. and john left shortly after. then later today john called robbie and the two of them talked some more. robbie told him that he (robbie) was very upset about the whole four hour thing and stuff. and that robbie was really upset that they did what they did. john said that they had no intentions of doing that and that they were going to invite us to see a movie that night but after my voice mail decided not to. so once i got home today robbie told me what they talked about. and said that maybe i should be a bigger person and aplogize for the way i came across on the voice mail. that i should explain why i was upset with them. i said oh well john says now that they never called me a whore that maybe i miss understood something. robbie said that maybe i should tell john and stef that the reasons im mad. and not just asume that everyone knows what upsets me. ok well lets see i know damn right well that they called me a whore (i really need to get a tape recorder), two john was a jackass at dinner another night insulting all kinds of people. for one thing you can say stuff in public and not know who is listening and if they dont like what they hear, something could happen once you leave that place. anywho after debating it, i agreed to go over and aplogize just for my tone on the vm. however not for the reason behind it. and that robbie would tell them what has upseted me. i figured that it would be better he talk then me. so i grabbed a bottle of wine (some good faith kind of thing) and we headed over to their apartment. after knocking and waiting for a minute, no answer. so robbie called john and invited him to go to coldstone with us. needless to say its 10:30pm while im blogging and no call back. another part of my agreement with robbie is that if this ever happens again either next week or months or years down the road, i am allowed to speak my mind, probably worse then what i have done, and never allow them around us. i still cant believe that john had the nerve to say to me that one his gf and stef want to speak to me about the vm. ok that vm was for john, i never said their names in it. and then for him to say i miss understood what they said. that no one ever called me a whore. nice try i know what i heard and why in the hell would i lie about that kind of stuff! as far as im concerned im done with these people. if i have to hang out with them or see them im was raised to be polite to people. so we shall see what happens.

kiki (robbies sister) is doing good on her ride across the USA. if you want to read about her adventure the website is: http://kiki.bikesacrossthe.us/


ok need to get to bed. have a great night!!!